When my dad owned his grocery store, he often earned trips as rewards. One of those trips was to the Bahamas, and my brother Jeff and I got to tag along with my mom and dad. We spent five days in paradise, enjoying all the planned activities with the group. On the last day, we practically had to drag my mom out of the hotel just to snap a picture of her on the beach—she had spent almost the entire trip in the casino!
Now, don’t get me wrong, she loved that, and I’m not poking fun. But that trip taught me an important lesson: we need to expand our world. Life is too short to stay tucked inside our comfort zones. When we’re given the chance to experience a new climate, culture, or way of life, we need to embrace it fully.
A Big World Beyond Our Small Towns
Have you ever stopped to think about how big the world really is? There are 7.7 billion people, 7 continents, 194 countries, and 2.5 million cities. My small town of Red Wing, Minnesota, has a population of about 16,500—that’s just .000002% of the world’s population. Isn’t that wild?
Think of all the people, stories, and places we’re missing out on when we don’t take the chance to explore.
You’re here for a reason. Maybe your purpose is right where you are—but that doesn’t mean you can’t broaden your perspective. Every new culture, tradition, or idea you encounter has the power to open your heart, spark your passion, and shift the way you see life.

Here are a few ideas to expand your world:
1. Add travel and adventure to your bucket list.
Adventure doesn’t always mean hopping on a plane to an exotic location (though that’s wonderful too). It could be as simple as a road trip, a spontaneous drive to a nearby town, or even diving into a travel book about a place you’ve always dreamed of.
2. Buy a map and make a road trip plan.
Pick a few places in your state to visit. A friend of mine is hiking through all of Minnesota’s state parks—what a marvelous way to discover new corners of your own backyard. My husband, son, dog, and I are planning a January road trip: visiting our daughter in Milwaukee, checking in on some of my husband’s stores in Louisville, then heading down to Florida to see my sister. I can’t wait to see what gems we find along the way.
3. Travel with friends.
Start a travel fund together. Appoint a Treasurer, save weekly, and throw a party to choose your next destination. My mom did this with her golf group, and they discovered so many fun new resorts.
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4. Find a pen pal from another country.
Sites like Pen Pal World and Pen Pal Schools make it easy to connect and exchange cultures.
5. Throw a dart at a map.
Sometimes spontaneity leads to the best adventures.
6. Aim to visit someplace new every year.
Big or small, near or far. Whether it’s the lighthouses in Door County, WI, the Blue Ridge Mountains in North Carolina, or as far away as Sydney’s Opera House or Marrakech’s vibrant markets—there’s always someplace new to see.
7. Explore through books.
Travel books, memoirs, or novels set in faraway places can transport you. A few of my favorites: Eat Pray Love, Into the Wild, The Alchemist, and Under the Tuscan Sun.
8. Share stories with traveled friends.
Schedule a coffee date and swap photos and experiences. My son and his fiancée went to Europe last spring, and now I’m itching to see the Amalfi Coast after hearing about their adventures.
9. Connect with your heritage.
Research where your grandparents or great-grandparents came from and explore traditions from that culture—whether it’s making lefse from Norway or learning Spanish if you have Mexican roots.
10. Visit international markets.
In Minneapolis, the Midtown Global Market offers food, music, and gifts from around the world. Check your area for similar cultural gems.
Why Travel Matters
It’s easy to sit at home, scroll, and watch life happen on a screen. But life was meant to be lived—fully and marvelously. Travel and exploration bring gifts that last a lifetime:
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New perspective. Travel pushes you out of your comfort zone and helps you see life through fresh eyes.
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Reflection. Psychologist Toby Israel, Ph.D., says, “Taking a break from business as usual enables us to pause, contemplate our lives, and potentially re-route the path we are taking.”
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Creativity. William Maddux, Ph.D., found that people who integrate new cultures into their identity become more creative over time.
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Memories. Exploring with family and friends creates stories you’ll treasure forever.
The Invitation
The world is vast, beautiful, and waiting for you. Whether through travel, books, food, or friendships—there are countless ways to expand your world.
So tell me—what will you do to step outside your comfort zone and see the world with fresh eyes?



Love this post Laurie!! I’m going to start my 2019 bucket list right now. Thanks for the encouragement! Keep on doing what your doing!❤️❤️
Thank you Barb! Maybe we should do some adventures together!