Using the law of attraction to manifest what you desire can be either wonderfully easy or painfully hard depending on your full awareness. It is very important to become aware of the things that you do want but it is just as necessary to be aware of the things which prevent you from manifesting what you want.
Here are five possible reasons why you may not be successful in manifesting what you want.
Not being in alignment
You must be in alignment with what you do want. To be in alignment with your desires is not always easy. Let’s say that you have the desire to attract twenty thousand dollars but you are flat broke, most everything in your environment speaks of poverty. You may be wishing and hoping but everything in your being feels like ten dollars rather than twenty thousand dollars. Your objective then should be to find a way to begin to feel like you are worth twenty thousand dollars. This is the first and most crucial step to activating the law of attraction.
- You could thank the service you have gotten and be grateful that you can pay them for it.
- Spend a little extra on something you really want.
- Visualize your bank account with lots of zeros after a 1 or 2 or 3.
- Be aware of when you call yourself poor or when you tell someone you can’t afford it.
- Write down 10 things you will spend your money on once you get your twenty thousand dollars.
Lack of focus
This is another hindrance to manifesting what you want. In order to get the universe to move what you want into your physical reality you must begin to hold a clear and steady focus on what you want at all times throughout the day.
Now we have about 60,000 thoughts a day, so I’m not suggesting you analyze every thought. But pay attention to the thoughts that are reoccurring. Do they align with what you desire? If negative thoughts are consistent for you, do some journaling to turn those thoughts into something more positive and train your mind to think and believe those.
Back to the $20,000 example, if you want to manifest the money, you can’t be focusing on all of the things you can’t afford. Or, the money that is not in your bank account. Or even why you are failing to get that money. Focus on what you do have. Be grateful and appreciative and allow the Universe to bring you more.
Lack of power with intent
The one thing which generates power with your intention is emotion and feelings. In order for the law of attraction to work quickly with your desires you must first know with great certainty that you do want what you are asking for and you must begin to feel it very deeply. If there are slight feelings of doubt those doubts will work as barriers affecting the attraction process from going in your favor.
How you feel about your desires is even more important than what you think and say. You could be reciting affirmations and mantras about having $20,000, but you feel unworthy of it. That will stop you from manifesting what you want fast!
Pay attention to those nagging feelings you get when you think about what you want to manifest. What shows up as to why you can’t have it? Let your feelings be a guide into what is holding you back. This article might help: How To Use the Emotional Scale to Attract More of What You Want
Not knowing how reality works
The law of attraction is one of several laws that assist you in manifesting what you want. There are other laws that cancel out your intention if you are not aware of them or how they work. Manifesting your desires requires that you learn all the necessary parts to get great success in attracting what you want.
One of my favorites is the Law of Unwavering Desire. Put a laser-like focus on what you want. Let go of all of the doubts, insecurities, and feelings of unworthiness. Leave the things you don’t want behind you. This doesn’t mean you can’t change your mind or change course but focus on your goal and assume it is coming true or is already true. The Universe doesn’t judge; it will give you what you desire and think about whether it is what you truly want or not. So, please don’t give them the wrong idea!
Read about the other 6 Laws of Attraction here: How to Manifest Faster Using the 7 Laws of Attraction
Surrounding yourself with people or things which contradict what you are creating
This is by far one of the most difficult parts of successfully applying the law of attraction. Other people’s beliefs and doubts can greatly hamper your ability to manifest what you want. Those people could be family members, co-workers, or friends. The universal law of attraction moves on vibration and other people’s vibration can have a great effect on your own personal vibration causing you to attract based on the vibration of the group you are surrounded by.
Since I have been studying the law of attraction, I notice more easily when people around me have low energy. They might put themselves down a lot or do a lot of gossiping about others. Another way they bring low vibrational energy is if they want to talk about what is wrong with the world all of the time. Or, they refuse to take responsibility for their own life and how it is playing out.
If you find yourself with someone like that, politely excuse yourself or steer the conversation in a more positive direction. But, make sure you are not that person! That will for sure take you out of alignment for manifesting what you want.
In the beautiful dance of manifesting what you want, the law of attraction holds incredible potential. So, let’s embark on this journey together with a deep sense of awareness. Align your thoughts and emotions, stay focused, grasp the intricacies of the manifesting process, and surround yourself with uplifting energies. As you do so, you’ll witness the magic unfold before your eyes. Embrace the power within you, and watch as your heartfelt desires joyfully manifest, guided by the universal forces that lovingly conspire in your favor.
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